Emily Snape’s Parenting Story

How do you talk about ADHD with your child?

In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire is joined by Emily Snape - a mum to 3 children, one of whom has ADHD. Emily is a children's author and illustrator, working with young people celebrating and supporting their amazing, creative neurodivergent minds. 

Emily shares her personal experiences as a parent of a child with ADHD, inspiring her wonderful book "My Amazing ADHD Brain." Emily’s book provides an age-appropriate resource, giving parents a helpful starting point to have conversations with their children about their ADHD brain. Claire shares an incredible example of doing just this with her own daughter, resulting in a beautiful moment of connection between them.

Emily first noticed signs of her son struggling in Year 6, including challenges with friendships and taking SATs, culminating in him refusing to go to school. Claire and Emily go on to discuss their experiences of getting a diagnosis for their children and how, despite concerns about ‘labeling’, ultimately it was beneficial not just to help their children understand their brain, but as parents, to be able to educate others around them about ADHD. Emily highlights how her own experience with diagnosis inspired her to write her book, which focuses on educating children about their brains, provides tips for navigating challenges, and encourages children to embrace their strengths.

Emily shares some of the helpful accommodations her son could access in secondary school once he had a diagnosis, such as having a pass to go out of the classroom if he was feeling overwhelmed or fidgety. She also shares some of the challenges of advocating for her son but ultimately how she believes we should focus on ADHD strengths rather than challenges. 

Emily and Claire also discuss the impact of emotional dysregulation on ADHD children, which is often missed by schools. Emily shares some fantastic advice for teachers and parents alike to help ADHD children when they are dysregulated, supporting them to learn how to regulate their own emotions as they grow up, and supporting them to ‘own’ their ADHD.

To find out more about Emily and her work, you can find out her latest publishing news on Instagram at @emily_snape_illustrator or to buy a copy of her My Amazing ADHD Brain book head here.